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Have a Dream & a Coffee Can!

I personally believe that so important to have a Dream. Something you wish to do, wish to have, wish to experience. Something that keeps you going in life.

My dream ever since I was a child was always Traveling around the world.

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When I was 7, my Mom got a Game for me that came with a World Map & a Couple of knowledge cards. The whole purpose of the GAME was to help me improve my knowledge of the world ( Life of an Asian Kid! ) It involved 2 players. The first had to point out a place on the map & the second player had to ask a Question relating to the place from the Knowledge cards & vice-versa. The player that got the most correct answers would win!

I would play by the rules with my mom & dad but my childhood best pal Nikita & I, we had our own interesting version of the game! We would each take chances at picking a location on the map & pretend we were out to explore that place & would have our own Imaginary adventures!

Other times we were owners of a pretend Travel agency. Air-hostesses the next. But it was always something Travel related. This went on for a very long time with the two of us!  It was very clear to whoever witnessed our play, that we would both suffer from a chronic case of Wanderlust as adults!

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Yep, that’s her!

Today Nikita lives in Australia & travels around the world in her spare time & tries out all the adventure sports there are to try out! As for me, I travel enough to have Travel Blog.

I think the only reason why both of us did end up seeing the world as Adults is because every since we were children, that was our greatest Dream & coupled with it was also an intense desire for it to come true & doing everything we could that would help on the way to it.

I often get comments on my Blog, where people tell me that they wish to Travel, see the world, meet new people & experience wanderlust for themselves, but cannot. They have their own reasons as to why they cannot do so. They vary from having a family to look after, an old person to care for, a career that does not allow them to take time off or financial issues. And honestly, I get it. They are genuine reasons. I always wondered what the right response to these comments was.

It was yesterday when while watching a previous Super Soul Sunday episode of Oprah with Elizabeth Gilbert that I found the answer.

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Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of the amazing Book ‘Eat,Pray, Love’, narrated a story a reader of hers shared with her. I am going to share that story with you.

The readers mother ( lets call her Amy) was born in a typical Irish catholic home in the 50’s & did what her mother & her grandmother & every other woman in her family had done before her. She got married at 18 & went on to have 5 kids in a row.

When Amy was 28, her husband left her. Just up & left. Amy was then left with 5 kids to raise. Her eldest then was 10 & the youngest 2 months old. The burden of holding her family together was on her & she did it take it upon herself to look after them as well as she could. It took a lot of efforts & sacrifices on her part which was pretty heroic in itself.

But there was also this one thing that she did, when it dawned upon her that her husband was never coming home again.She promised herself that her life would not always look this way, filled with so much sorrow, so much poverty & so much oppression in it. She promised herself that one day she would travel the world on her own.

She then got herself a coffee can, a regular coffee can. She kept it at the back of her cupboard where her children could not see it & everyday since the day her husband left, she put one dollar a day in it.

Amy knew there were always going to be hard times & there was always going to be trouble with money but one dollar was something she could spare. She never touched those coffee cans all the years & continued to put in one dollar every single day filling coffee cans after coffee cans.

After 20 years when her kids were all grown up & when her last kid left her house, that she finally cashed in those coffee cans & brought herself a ticket to travel around the world alone, as she had promised herself she would do!

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This exceptional story of heroism & Dreams answers almost every question relating to our quests. Whether it be traveling the world, writing a book, running the marathon or something else. What I want to convey through this story is simple.

Don’t give up on your quest! Keep the dream alive! Have a plan!

If you don’t have a Dream yet, I encourage you to have one from this coming year.

Take a birds eye view of things. Sometimes we don’t get things instantly. We have to wait for the right time for them to come true & honestly that’s okay. It took me a long time to make my dream of traveling the world come true, but now, almost 20 years later it is finally happening for me. It will happen for you too.

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Get a dream, keep your dream alive & get that Coffee Can ( A literal one or a Planner in its place, whichever is relevant)

Let us together declare the coming year as ‘The Year of the Coffee Cans ( & have lot of coffee in the process, wink wink 😉 )

I would love to hear about your dreams & plans too! Do leave them in the comments section of this post!

Much Love,

Arry.

 

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25 thoughts on “Have a Dream & a Coffee Can!”

  1. Yay! love the story of Amy, thank you very much for sharing. Very inspiring! I also love your story on how you became a wanderlust. 🙂 Miss you my friend, keep travelling and keep the dreams alive! Hugs and love!

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  2. This post really connected with me. We had to save a long time before we could travel for the first time, but we kept a board with all the places we wanted to go to. It is amazing how many of those we have been able to take off and add new ones again. I will never stop dreaming! 🙂

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  3. Great post, Arpita. Dreams are what make life interesting and compelling. Love your advice to Mel. And I agree he could very possibly find a unique way to connect, not just with the disabled, but with a lot more folks. Consider the aging population and the challenges that can arise when your body is not as fit as it once was.

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  4. That is an inspiring story. But it proves your point, you have to have a dream! And then you have to take positive steps to fulfill the dream. Even that dollar a day eventually added up to enough money to travel around the world. If she had given up on that dream, she might’ve dipped into those funds for something else and the dream would’ve been lost. Wonderful post!

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    1. So true! Every time she needed money badly, she could just open the coffee can & take from it. But she did not. I was very touched by her dedication & wanted to share it as far as I could. 🙂

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  5. I have a lot of dreams and plans. Including doing some sports even though it will be tough to get them adapted to what my body is capable of. Another one is traveling the world. I always wanted that and I don’t feel like being disabled should stop you. I wish I could make this travel tv program, with highlights and tips of every place for people with special needs. It’s difficult to find things you can still do, but not impossible. And I hope I can help other (disabled) people with getting what they need and fulfilling dreams and plans as well. That way, I hope slowly but surely it will become easier and more normal and eventually it won’t take as much time, energy, money, patience and organizing.

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    1. This is such an amazing Idea. My country is taking so steps to make places travel friendly for those who have difficulties. Why don’t you have your own vlogging channel on Youtube where you can start with how you adapt to travel locally & take it from there. It will make a difference I am sure! Such a beautiful dream this is! Get your Coffee cans going!

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      1. That sounds lovely. I actually thought it wouldn’t be interesting enough, because there are already so many travel programs/blogs/vlogs and the disabled are a minor community. Although, I would like to connect those worlds. So showbink things that are interesting for everyone and then some extra attention for ‘disabled’, such as if there’s an elevator in the building and stuff like that. Because it’s still surprising how many things aren’t adapted, but I can only encourage every step a country takes towards more accessibility!

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      2. There will be so many competing blogs & vlogs. But we can always give things our unique touch! I think it is a brilliant idea & you will be making a difference in the world in your own way! Let me know once you have a vlog, I will be happy to promote it on my Blog 🙂

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